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The same steady regard for well-wisher and foe, and for everyone in between

We meet people as friend, enemy, kinsman, stranger, the good and the sinful, and our inner stance tilts with each. This verse praises the one in whom no such tilt rises, while leaving the outer treatment each person is owed untouched.

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सुहृन्मित्रार्युदासीनमध्यस्थद्वेष्यबन्धुषु। साधुष्वपि च पापेषु समबुद्धिर्विशिष्यते
suhṛin-mitrāryudāsīna-madhyastha-dveṣhya-bandhuṣhu sādhuṣhvapi cha pāpeṣhu sama-buddhir viśhiṣhyate

The one who regards them all with an equal mind excels: well-wisher and friend, enemy and stranger, the neutral, the hateful, the relative, the good, and the sinful alike.

Bhagavad Gita 6.9
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Sanskrit recitation by Swami Brahmānanda

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Having just praised evenness toward a clod, a stone, and gold, the verse now raises the bar to people, who unlike a thing act for you and against you, and names this the higher and harder equanimity.

Where they agreethe convergence

What is held even here is the inner regard underneath, the mind no longer sorting people by who they are or what they have done to you, not the outward conduct each person is owed.

Across schools and centuries the commentators come to the same ground. These are the points they share, and the voices that hold each one.

6schools

First sit with the whole spread of people you meet: the well-wisher who wants nothing back, the friend, the foe with sword in hand, the indifferent, the mediator, the disagreeable one, the kinsman, the good, and the sinful, so no one is left outside.

Across Advaita, Viśiṣṭādvaita, Kashmir Śaiva, Bhakti, Dvaita, Śuddhādvaita, and the modern voicesŚaṅkara · Madhusūdana · Nīlakaṇṭha · Dhanapati · Rāmānuja · Vedānta Deśika · Abhinavagupta · Śrīdhara · Viśvanātha · Baladeva · Sivananda · Tilak · Madhva · Puruṣottama
In Śaṅkara, Madhusūdana, and 12 others’ words

The verse first lays out a full spread of the people one meets in life, and the commentators carefully name each kind. A suhrt (well-wisher) is one who does good for you without expecting anything back. A mitra (friend) helps you out of affection. An ari (foe) is an enemy, even one with sword in hand or who works your harm. The udasina (indifferent one) takes no side and stays apart. The madhyastha (mediator) wishes well to both parties in a quarrel. The dveshya (one to be hated) is disagreeable to you and does what is unsettling. The bandhu (kinsman) is your relative. Then come the sadhus, the good who follow scripture and act rightly, and the papas, the sinful who do what is forbidden. Krishna deliberately covers the whole human field so that no one is left out of the teaching.

3schools

Toward each of these, however differently they treat you, hold one steady regard; when attachment and aversion have fallen, the role a person plays in your life no longer tilts what rises inside you.

Across Advaita, Viśiṣṭādvaita, Bhakti, and the modern voicesŚaṅkara · Madhusūdana · Nīlakaṇṭha · Dhanapati · Rāmānuja · Vedānta Deśika · Śrīdhara · Ramsukhdas · Sivananda
In Śaṅkara, Madhusūdana, and 7 others’ words

Toward every one of these, however differently they treat him, the advanced yogi keeps a sama-buddhi, an equal mind. The core of this equality is that his mind is simply not engaged in sorting people by what they are and what they have done to him. He does not ask 'who is this, and what is the nature of his action toward me'. He does not separate persons by the help or harm they have given him. Because attachment (raga) and aversion (dvesha) have fallen away, the role another person plays in his social world no longer tilts his inner stance. The same steady regard meets the well-wisher and the foe alike.

Asked in question 3, below
4schools

Such a one stands highest among those settled in yoga, for staying even toward a mere thing is easy, but a person acts for you and against you, so evenness toward people is the harder and finer achievement.

Across Advaita, Bhakti, Śuddhādvaita, Kashmir Śaiva, and the modern voicesŚaṅkara · Madhusūdana · Ānandagiri · Viśvanātha · Baladeva · Dhanapati · Ramsukhdas · Vallabha · Abhinavagupta · Śrīdhara
In Śaṅkara, Madhusūdana, and 8 others’ words

Such a person, the verse says, vishishyate, he is the more distinguished, the best among yogis. The commentators note two old readings of this final word. On one reading he is 'distinguished', he stands highest of all who are mounted on yoga. On the other reading he is 'released', wholly freed from all faults. Either way the verse is praising this equanimity as a higher rung. Several commentators add that this equal regard toward persons is even harder, and so even more excellent, than the equality toward a clod, a stone, and gold stated in the verse before: a thing does no action, so being even toward it is easy, but a person acts for and against you, so staying even toward people is the harder and finer achievement.

This is the shared ground; it can be carried as it is. Below is where they differ.

Where they differthe divergence

The question they answer differently
When a person actively helps or harms you, what is supposed to become equal toward them: your inner regard, or your outward treatment and honor?
The traditional commentators
Advaita VedāntaŚaṅkara, Ānandagiri, Madhusūdana
The mind simply stops sorting people by who they are and what they have done to you; attachment and aversion having fallen, the same steady regard meets well-wisher and foe.
Inner buddhi only; presented as a further limb of yoga securing the highest fruit.
Advaita Vedānta, in their fuller words

These commentators take the equal mind almost wholly as the absence of any sorting impulse. The yogi's buddhi is simply not occupied with the questions of who a person is by class and lineage, and what he does by activity; he is everywhere free of attachment and aversion. The two readings of the final word, that he is the best of yogis or that he is released from all faults, are both preserved, and the equanimity is presented as a further limb of yoga that secures the highest fruit. The stress is on an inner mind emptied of partiality, without building any larger metaphysical apparatus around it.

Śaṅkara · Ānandagiri · Madhusūdana · Nīlakaṇṭha · Dhanapati
ViśiṣṭādvaitaRāmānuja, Vedānta Deśika
Because you seek the Self alone, no one can serve or oppose that aim, so the differences among people lose their purchase and the inner stance stays even.
Inner attitude only; outward conduct still follows each person's natural and dharma-given relation.
Viśiṣṭādvaita, in their fuller words

Here the equality is grounded in a specific reason: the yogi has the self alone for his purpose. Because he seeks only the self, there is nothing that well-wishers, friends, and the rest can do for that purpose, and no ground on which foes can oppose it; so the differences among people simply have no purchase on him. This is also carefully limited. The equality is of the inner buddhi-stance, not of outer conduct. Outward behaviour still follows the natural and dharma-given relations one has with each person; what is held even is only the inner attitude, which is no longer colored by the role another occupies in one's social field. This extends to persons the same fixed, unmoved (kutastha) mark earlier applied to mere things.

Rāmānuja · Vedānta Deśika
Asked in question 2, below
DvaitaMadhva, Jayatīrtha
Living beings are in themselves pure consciousness and faultless, their virtues and faults coming from the Lord, so hold an even sight toward all.
Equal sight, not equal worship; honor must still follow each one's qualities, and some inequality is real and eternal.
Dvaita, in their fuller words

These commentators locate the equality precisely in jiva-consciousness, not in worship. Since the supreme Self is the cause of all and is everywhere one uniform consciousness, living beings of themselves are simply consciousness and free of fault; their saintliness, their faults, and all their virtues come entirely from the Lord, and the apparent inequality among them is born of the inner organ (the limiting adjunct) and of error. That is why one should hold an equal vision toward all. But, they insist sharply, this equal vision is not equal worship. To worship the unequal equally, or the equal unequally, is itself a recorded fault that makes even a god or a man fall from his station; honor must follow each one's qualities (wealth, kinship, age, action, learning). They also hold that some inequality is genuine, natural, and eternal: the gods are of the nature of virtue, the demons of fault. So 'equal sight' means the painless sameness of regard, while worship rightly stays unequal; and they note that the yogi anyway does no harm to worldly foes.

Madhva · Jayatīrtha
ŚuddhādvaitaVallabha, Puruṣottama
The conscious self, satisfied through knowledge and realization, rests on a fullness that outward differences can neither add to nor diminish, so nothing moves it.
Also read through bhakti: in separation, one reads each person as the Lord's own self.
Śuddhādvaita, in their fuller words

For these commentators the equal-eyedness is not a mere flattening of judgement but flows from a settled fullness. In one voice it is the cit-portion, the conscious self, having come to satisfaction through jnana and vijnana (knowledge and realization) together; outward differences cannot move such a one because he rests on a fullness they can neither add to nor diminish. In the other voice the equality is read through the devotee's relation to Bhagavan: in the state of separation from the Lord, he reads all persons as the Lord's own self, bearing toward each, by remembering the Lord, the very dharma appropriate to that relation, so that his even-mindedness in every situation is what makes him supreme.

Vallabha · Puruṣottama
Kashmir ŚaivaAbhinavagupta
The one whose intelligence is even toward all these, and toward the good and the sinful, step by step crosses beyond the cycle of rebirth.
Equanimity framed as a graded ascent out of transmigration.
Kashmir Śaiva, in their fuller words

Abhinavagupta gives crisp definitions, noting that the well-wisher is good-hearted without any cause, friendship and enmity are each reciprocal, and the middling one is part friend and part foe. He then adds the distinctive note that the one whose intelligence is even toward all of these, and toward the good and the sinful, not only is more excellent but 'step by step crosses beyond transmigration': the equanimity is framed as a graded ascent out of the cycle of rebirth.

Abhinavagupta
BhaktiŚrīdhara, Viśvanātha, Baladeva
Holding no idea of friend or foe, own or stranger, because the true seeing is 'I am myself the entire universe,' rooted in the one Supreme Brahman.
Even regard toward persons is superior even to evenness toward a clod, a stone, and gold.
Bhakti, in their fuller words

These commentators define the equal buddhi as one void of raga and dvesha toward all the listed kinds, and stress that this even regard toward persons is superior even to evenness toward a clod, a stone, and gold. Jnaneshwari deepens this with a vision-based ground: such a person can hold no idea of friend or foe, own or stranger, because he possesses the true seeing 'I am myself the entire universe'. Just as gold tested against the touchstone proves to be one pure gold under every ornament's differing shape, and as a cloth seen closely is nothing but a single weave of threads, so to his clear vision the whole moving and unmoving universe is realized as rooted in his own self and as nothing but the one Supreme Brahman; his even vision is simply that total experience.

Śrīdhara · Viśvanātha · Baladeva · Jñāneśvar
Modern voices teachers of the last two centuries, read together; they stand apart from the classical schools
A modern readingSivananda, Tilak, Ramsukhdas
Plain equal vision: make no difference of caste, creed, or colour, and love all as your own self, rooted in the Self.
The listed relations are heaped together to leave nobody out, an exhaustive sweep.
A modern reading, in their fuller words

These commentators carry the verse to the ordinary reader. One frames sama-buddhi as plain equal vision and impartiality: the yogi makes no difference of caste, creed, or colour and loves all as his own self, as rooted in the Self. Another reads the list of relations loosely on purpose, holding that the several words are not each meant to fix a separate meaning but are heaped together so that the combination leaves nobody out, an exhaustive sweep. A third draws the practical contrast that gives the verse its point: a thing does no action, so equanimity toward it is easy, but a person acts for himself and against others, so the one in whose understanding and reflection no unevenness or partiality arises even when he watches people behave is the truly high equal-minded person.

Sivananda · Tilak · Ramsukhdas
Sit with these

A few questions to carry

These ask for understanding, not recall; each answer is settled by the commentary itself.

1
Krishna says a person excels among yogis when their mind meets which range of people in one steady way?
2
If the equal mind does not mean behaving identically toward friend and harmer, what exactly becomes equal?
3
What is it that actually dissolves in the one who holds this equal mind?
4
Why is staying even toward people called harder and finer than staying even toward a clod, a stone, and gold?
For a second sitting7 more questions
5
In the Dvaita reading, where does the verse's equality stop, so that something rightly stays unequal?
6
On what ground does Ramanuja explain why differences among people lose their hold on the yogi?
7
How does the Bhakti reading, voiced through Jnaneshwari, ground the even vision toward all persons?
8
What distinctive note does Abhinavagupta add about where this equanimity finally leads?
9
In the Shuddhadvaita reading, what makes the even-eyed one unmoved by outward differences among people?
10
What does Ramsukhdas offer as the actual field of practice for growing this even mind?
11
The commentators preserve two old readings of the final word vishishyate. What are they?

Carry this with youwhat stays

Notice where the real difficulty lives. Being even toward a clod, a stone, or a lump of gold is easy, because a thing does nothing to you; it makes no move for itself and none against you. A person is harder. A person acts, for himself and toward others, and it is precisely watching that conduct, the slight, the favor, the harm, that pulls your mind into unevenness and taking sides. So make this the field of your practice. Watch how people behave, and watch your own buddhi and reflection at the same time. The aim is not to stop seeing what someone does, but to let no vishamata, no partiality, arise in you on account of it. When you can observe the whole spread of people you meet and find no tilt of for-and-against rising inside, that steadiness is the mark of the high equal-minded person.

Today, watch how people behave and watch your own mind at the same time, and let no tilt of for-and-against rise in you on account of what you see; that quiet steadiness is the practice itself.

सुहृन्मित्रार्युदासीनमध्यस्थद्वेष्यबन्धुषु।suhṛin-mitrāryudāsīna-madhyastha-dveṣhya-bandhuṣhu

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Convergence

he verse first lays out a full spread of the people one meets in life, and the commentators carefully name each kind. A suhrt (well-wisher) is one who does good for you without expecting anything back. A mitra (friend) helps you out of affection. An ari (foe) is an enemy, even one with sword in hand or who works your harm. The udasina (indifferent one) takes no side and stays apart. The madhyastha (mediator) wishes well to both parties in a quarrel. The dveshya (one to be hated) is disagreeable to you and does what is unsettling. The bandhu (kinsman) is your relative. Then come the sadhus, the good who follow scripture and act rightly, and the papas, the sinful who do what is forbidden. Krishna deliberately covers the whole human field so that no one is left out of the teaching.

Braided from 14 commentators

Śaṅkarācārya · Madhusūdana Sarasvatī · Śrī Nīlakaṇṭha · Dhanapati Sūri · Rāmānujācārya · Vedānta Deśika · Ācārya Abhinavagupta · Śrīdhara Svāmī · Śrīla Viśvanātha · Śrīla Baladeva · Swami Sivananda · Lokmanya Tilak · Madhvācārya · Śrī Puruṣottama

Toward every one of these, however differently they treat him, the advanced yogi keeps a sama-buddhi, an equal mind. The core of this equality is that his mind is simply not engaged in sorting people by what they are and what they have done to him. He does not ask 'who is this, and what is the nature of his action toward me'. He does not separate persons by the help or harm they have given him. Because attachment (raga) and aversion (dvesha) have fallen away, the role another person plays in his social world no longer tilts his inner stance. The same steady regard meets the well-wisher and the foe alike.

Braided from 9 commentators

Śaṅkarācārya · Madhusūdana Sarasvatī · Śrī Nīlakaṇṭha · Dhanapati Sūri · Rāmānujācārya · Vedānta Deśika · Śrīdhara Svāmī · Swami Ramsukhdas · Swami Sivananda

Such a person, the verse says, vishishyate, he is the more distinguished, the best among yogis. The commentators note two old readings of this final word. On one reading he is 'distinguished', he stands highest of all who are mounted on yoga. On the other reading he is 'released', wholly freed from all faults. Either way the verse is praising this equanimity as a higher rung. Several commentators add that this equal regard toward persons is even harder, and so even more excellent, than the equality toward a clod, a stone, and gold stated in the verse before: a thing does no action, so being even toward it is easy, but a person acts for and against you, so staying even toward people is the harder and finer achievement.

Braided from 10 commentators

Śaṅkarācārya · Madhusūdana Sarasvatī · Śrī Ānandagiri · Śrīla Viśvanātha · Śrīla Baladeva · Dhanapati Sūri · Swami Ramsukhdas · Vallabhācārya · Ācārya Abhinavagupta · Śrīdhara Svāmī

Divergence

Advaita Vedānta

These commentators take the equal mind almost wholly as the absence of any sorting impulse. The yogi's buddhi is simply not occupied with the questions of who a person is by class and lineage, and what he does by activity; he is everywhere free of attachment and aversion. The two readings of the final word, that he is the best of yogis or that he is released from all faults, are both preserved, and the equanimity is presented as a further limb of yoga that secures the highest fruit. The stress is on an inner mind emptied of partiality, without building any larger metaphysical apparatus around it.

Śaṅkarācārya · Śrī Ānandagiri · Madhusūdana Sarasvatī · Śrī Nīlakaṇṭha · Dhanapati Sūri

Viśiṣṭādvaita

Here the equality is grounded in a specific reason: the yogi has the self alone for his purpose. Because he seeks only the self, there is nothing that well-wishers, friends, and the rest can do for that purpose, and no ground on which foes can oppose it; so the differences among people simply have no purchase on him. This is also carefully limited. The equality is of the inner buddhi-stance, not of outer conduct. Outward behaviour still follows the natural and dharma-given relations one has with each person; what is held even is only the inner attitude, which is no longer colored by the role another occupies in one's social field. This extends to persons the same fixed, unmoved (kutastha) mark earlier applied to mere things.

Rāmānujācārya · Vedānta Deśika

Dvaita

These commentators locate the equality precisely in jiva-consciousness, not in worship. Since the supreme Self is the cause of all and is everywhere one uniform consciousness, living beings of themselves are simply consciousness and free of fault; their saintliness, their faults, and all their virtues come entirely from the Lord, and the apparent inequality among them is born of the inner organ (the limiting adjunct) and of error. That is why one should hold an equal vision toward all. But, they insist sharply, this equal vision is not equal worship. To worship the unequal equally, or the equal unequally, is itself a recorded fault that makes even a god or a man fall from his station; honor must follow each one's qualities (wealth, kinship, age, action, learning). They also hold that some inequality is genuine, natural, and eternal: the gods are of the nature of virtue, the demons of fault. So 'equal sight' means the painless sameness of regard, while worship rightly stays unequal; and they note that the yogi anyway does no harm to worldly foes.

Madhvācārya · Śrī Jayatīrtha

Śuddhādvaita

For these commentators the equal-eyedness is not a mere flattening of judgement but flows from a settled fullness. In one voice it is the cit-portion, the conscious self, having come to satisfaction through jnana and vijnana (knowledge and realization) together; outward differences cannot move such a one because he rests on a fullness they can neither add to nor diminish. In the other voice the equality is read through the devotee's relation to Bhagavan: in the state of separation from the Lord, he reads all persons as the Lord's own self, bearing toward each, by remembering the Lord, the very dharma appropriate to that relation, so that his even-mindedness in every situation is what makes him supreme.

Vallabhācārya · Śrī Puruṣottama

Kashmir Shaivism

Abhinavagupta gives crisp definitions, noting that the well-wisher is good-hearted without any cause, friendship and enmity are each reciprocal, and the middling one is part friend and part foe. He then adds the distinctive note that the one whose intelligence is even toward all of these, and toward the good and the sinful, not only is more excellent but 'step by step crosses beyond transmigration': the equanimity is framed as a graded ascent out of the cycle of rebirth.

Ācārya Abhinavagupta

Bhakti

These commentators define the equal buddhi as one void of raga and dvesha toward all the listed kinds, and stress that this even regard toward persons is superior even to evenness toward a clod, a stone, and gold. Jnaneshwari deepens this with a vision-based ground: such a person can hold no idea of friend or foe, own or stranger, because he possesses the true seeing 'I am myself the entire universe'. Just as gold tested against the touchstone proves to be one pure gold under every ornament's differing shape, and as a cloth seen closely is nothing but a single weave of threads, so to his clear vision the whole moving and unmoving universe is realized as rooted in his own self and as nothing but the one Supreme Brahman; his even vision is simply that total experience.

Śrīdhara Svāmī · Śrīla Viśvanātha · Śrīla Baladeva · Sant Jñāneśvar

Modern

These commentators carry the verse to the ordinary reader. One frames sama-buddhi as plain equal vision and impartiality: the yogi makes no difference of caste, creed, or colour and loves all as his own self, as rooted in the Self. Another reads the list of relations loosely on purpose, holding that the several words are not each meant to fix a separate meaning but are heaped together so that the combination leaves nobody out, an exhaustive sweep. A third draws the practical contrast that gives the verse its point: a thing does no action, so equanimity toward it is easy, but a person acts for himself and against others, so the one in whose understanding and reflection no unevenness or partiality arises even when he watches people behave is the truly high equal-minded person.

Swami Sivananda · Lokmanya Tilak · Swami Ramsukhdas

A Seeker Asks

If I am supposed to feel exactly the same toward a sincere friend and a person actively harming me, doesn't this verse ask me to abandon all judgment and treat everyone identically in practice?

The verse is not asking you to erase the differences between people or to behave identically toward everyone. The equality it praises is of the inner buddhi-stance, the attitude underneath, not of outer conduct. Your outward behaviour can and should still follow the natural and dharma-given relations you have with each person; what becomes even is the inner regard that no longer gets tilted by the particular role someone occupies in your life.

Vedānta Deśika · Rāmānujācārya

Crucially, equal vision is not the same as equal treatment. Honoring everyone in an undifferentiated way is itself a fault; honor and worship rightly follow a person's actual qualities and station, while it is only the sight, the painless sameness of regard, that is to be made equal. So you keep your discernment of who is good and who is harmful; you simply stop letting that assessment generate attachment toward one and aversion toward the other inside you.

Madhvācārya · Śrī Jayatīrtha

What actually dissolves is the sorting reflex, the mind busy with 'who is this to me and what has he done for or against me'. When attachment and aversion fall away, that question loses its grip, and the same steady regard can meet the well-wisher and the foe without your conduct toward each becoming confused. This is exactly why the verse calls such evenness toward persons the higher achievement, harder and finer than evenness toward a mere thing.

Śaṅkarācārya · Madhusūdana Sarasvatī · Swami Ramsukhdas

Contemplation

Notice where the real difficulty lives. Being even toward a clod, a stone, or a lump of gold is easy, because a thing does nothing to you; it makes no move for itself and none against you. A person is harder. A person acts, for himself and toward others, and it is precisely watching that conduct, the slight, the favor, the harm, that pulls your mind into unevenness and taking sides. So make this the field of your practice. Watch how people behave, and watch your own buddhi and reflection at the same time. The aim is not to stop seeing what someone does, but to let no vishamata, no partiality, arise in you on account of it. When you can observe the whole spread of people you meet and find no tilt of for-and-against rising inside, that steadiness is the mark of the high equal-minded person.

Sit with this · Swami Ramsukhdas

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